from Carol
As impactful members of the ATA village, parents often ask what can they do at home to help reinforce the love of learning and the pursuit of excellence that we teach at CP.
One thought that comes to mind, and in the words of Coach Newman, encourage them to "Show up and listen... and always do your best."
Another is to MODEL what you wish for them to do:
1) complete tasks joyfully;
2) study diligently,
3) practice an share what you love to do; and
4) perform with dignity.
In relating specifically to encouraging the love of learning, here are three simple things that you can do at home:
1) Ask the right questions. Instead of asking "How was your day?", which may result in a one word answer of "fine" or "boring", try asking, "What are you reading about in History?", which requires thought and a dialog. Take 30 minutes each day to sit down and discuss something that is important to you AND your child.
2) Create habits. Instead of asking a task oriented question like, "Do you have any homework?"; ask a habit oriented question like, "What will you be studying tonight after dinner?" Designate study as part of your evening ritual. To create habit, repeat in each night for 30 days, at the same time, in the same location, and without distraction. Additionally, I suggest NO electronics in the bedrooms and instead study at the dining table or in the family room. You may be surprised at how much (less) homework your child actually has each night.
3) Read with or aloud to your family. 30 pages a day is one of the greatest gifts you
can give to your child that will result in improved academic performance and
character transformation. It is also a beautiful way for your family to connect each
day. Establish 30 minutes to gather at the dining table or in the living room, with no TV, computers or cellular devices. Suggested books that will spark discussion include: The Chosen, To Kill A Mockingbird, Moby Dick, The Alchemist, Three Cups of Tea, Never Let Me Go, Frankenstein, Tuck Everlasting... or perhaps one that she is currently reading at school.
As parents, we want the the very best for our children.
Love them. Show them that you value how they spend their days. And teach them to appreciate the way in which you spend yours.
Try the 30-30-30 rule: 30 minutes, 30 days, 30 pages.
Let me know what happens next!